Posted by Mary E. Ramos | Divorce
Is divorce a civil case? Are you preparing to get divorced in Texas? If so, you may have heard the terms “filing for divorce” and “suing for divorce” being thrown around.
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Schedule A ConsultationFiling vs. Suing For A Divorce: A Matter Of Semantics
As a general rule, you are far more likely to hear the term “filing” for divorce used in Texas rather than “suing” for divorce. Although the meaning is the same, the word suing comes across more aggressively than the term filing. Indeed, you are more likely to hear the word “suing” used in strictly adverse cases, such as those involving personal injuries, financial fraud, and commercial breach of contract. A divorce is, by nature, a lawsuit. But divorce is often considered different than other types of lawsuits.
Family law cases, including divorces, are not completely adversarial. Often, the parties still share some mutual interests. Further, they may want to try to find an amicable solution and avoid damaging important relationships. Still, it is largely a matter of semantics. Whether you call it “filing” or “suing”, the party taking action is bringing a legal claim.
Key Takeaways
Filing vs. Suing For Divorce in Texas: What You Should Know
When it comes to filing vs. suing for divorce, the words matter far less than the path your case takes after it begins. Here is what Texas spouses should understand before taking the first step.
- Both terms mean the same legal action: submitting an Original Petition for Divorce in the appropriate Texas county to open the case.
- “Suing” simply sounds harsher. A divorce is a civil lawsuit, but family law cases are rarely fully adversarial because spouses often share interests.
- The distinction that actually matters is contested vs. uncontested divorce, which shapes your timeline, cost, and how involved the court becomes.
- In an uncontested divorce, the non-filing spouse can sign a notarized waiver of service, so no process server or officer has to deliver papers.
Contested vs. Uncontested Divorce: An Important Distinction
While filing vs. suing is largely a matter of semantics, there is a very important difference between a divorce that has reached a mutual settlement and one that has not yet been resolved.
In Texas, all divorce cases can be placed into one of the following two categories: contested divorce and uncontested divorce. A contested divorce is one in which the spouses cannot reach an agreement on any relevant issues, and the matter must be adjudicated by a court. In contrast, an uncontested divorce is one in which the spouses have reached an agreement.
In either circumstance, the Texas divorce process begins with an Original Petition for Divorce. Entering this legal petition—which must be submitted in the appropriate county—is the equivalent of “filing” or “suing” for divorce.
Whether you are getting a contested divorce or uncontested divorce matters. In Texas, the spouse that files a divorce petition must “serve” their partner with notice that a divorce suit is pending. With a contested divorce, notice is always required. In some cases, a spouse may file for a contested divorce without even informally telling their partner.
On the other hand, with an uncontested divorce, the non-filing spouse can sign a waiver of notice before a notary public. This means that no service by a law enforcement officer or professional process server will be required. Put another way, a couple can essentially file for an uncontested divorce together. While one spouse will still need to file the divorce petition, the other spouse can waive their rights and allow the court to move forward in entering a final divorce decree in a faster, more efficient manner.
Know Your Rights Before You File For Divorce
If you are preparing to file or sue for divorce, it is highly recommended that you get professional guidance before submitting any documents to the court. You do not want to make a mistake that could undermine your rights or bog down the legal process. Going through a divorce is complicated. It could be a major mistake to run to the nearest courthouse and submit a divorce petition before you are actually ready to do so.
In Texas, most divorces are resolved outside of litigation. As a general rule, an uncontested divorce is a faster, more cost-effective, and less emotionally challenging option. While it is not possible in every case, it is certainly something that needs to be considered. An experienced Texas divorce lawyer will be able to listen to your story, review your case, and help you devise a strategy to best protect your legal rights and financial interests.
Frequently Asked Questions
Filing Or Suing For Divorce in Texas: Your Questions Answered
No. In Texas, filing for divorce and suing for divorce describe the same action: submitting an Original Petition for Divorce in the proper county. “Filing” is the more common term because “suing” sounds more hostile. Either way, the spouse who files is bringing a legal claim that starts the divorce case.
Yes. A divorce is a civil lawsuit that runs through the court system, with formal pleadings, notice requirements, and a final decree. Unlike most lawsuits, though, family law cases are not purely adversarial. Spouses often share interests, such as their children, and many work toward an amicable resolution instead of a courtroom battle.
A contested divorce is one where spouses cannot agree on key issues, so a court must decide them. An uncontested divorce is one where the spouses have reached an agreement. Both begin with the same petition, but uncontested cases are generally faster, less expensive, and less emotionally draining than cases that go to litigation.
It depends on the type of case. In a contested divorce, the filing spouse must formally serve the other spouse with notice that a suit is pending. In an uncontested divorce, the non-filing spouse can sign a waiver before a notary public, so no officer or process server is needed.
Filing a petition before you are ready can lead to mistakes that undermine your rights or slow the process down. A Texas divorce lawyer can review your situation, explain whether an uncontested divorce is realistic, and help you build a strategy that protects your legal rights and financial interests from the start.
Call Our Houston Divorce Lawyers To Discuss Your Legal Options When It Comes To Your Divorce
At the Ramos Law Group, PLLC, our Texas family attorneys are attentive, solutions-focused representatives for our clients. If you are preparing to file for divorce, we are ready to help. Our lawyers have experience with both contested and uncontested divorces.
To set up a completely confidential case evaluation, please contact our legal team today. From our locations in Houston, Sugar Land, and The Woodlands, we represent clients all around the wider region including in Galveston, Pasadena, Pearland, Baytown, Spring, and Conroe.
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